Orgasm control is a power exchange practice where one partner controls the other's orgasms - determining when, if, or how they may occur. This includes orgasm denial, forced orgasm, and ruined orgasms.
Orgasm denial involves preventing orgasm despite arousal, sometimes for extended periods. Forced orgasm involves overstimulation beyond comfort. Ruined orgasm involves stopping stimulation at the moment of orgasm.
The practice appeals through the power dynamics involved, the intense physical sensations, the psychological aspects of surrender, and the heightened anticipation and eventual release.
Physical considerations include understanding that extended denial affects people differently, forced orgasm can cause sensitivity issues, and communication about physical responses is important throughout.
Safety Information
Communicate about physical responses. Respect limits around overstimulation. Check in regularly.