Queening or facesitting involves one partner sitting on the other's face, positioning themselves for oral stimulation or as an act of dominance. The practice can emphasize pleasure, power dynamics, or both.
As a dominant act, queening puts the sitting partner in control of the encounter - controlling rhythm, pressure, and the bottom partner's access to air. This power dynamic appeals to many regardless of the genders involved.
The receiving partner may focus on providing pleasure, being used, breath control elements, or simply the vulnerability of the position. Communication about weight distribution and breathing is important.
Safety involves establishing signals for when the bottom partner needs air, being mindful of weight distribution, and maintaining awareness of the bottom partner's wellbeing throughout.
Safety Information
Establish clear signals. Be mindful of weight and breathing. Check in regularly.